Monday, February 14, 2011

One Month Post Transplant


It has been one month today since Cleos' successful kidney transplant surgery. Although I don't typically subscribe to the whole "Valentines Day" hoopla---kinda think you should just show your love all year round---I thought today would be appropriate to say "I LOVE YOU" Mr. Cleo Cheney! I'm pretty sure he already knows this because we never go to bed without saying that to each other, but nonetheless, I've said it for the world to hear.
We are both feeling really good and getting most of our energy back. Cleo definately has more than he did before the surgery, which is another sign the kidney is doing it's job. I still tend to get a little tired in the evening, but guess it's just my bodys' way of telling me it's had enough for the day! We go back to Piedmont this Wednesday to get Cleos' stent removed and he will also have bloodwork and see the Dr. So far, they are quite pleased with everything and we all continue to be optimistic this will last for a really, really long time and that Cleo will stay healthy. Now that the weather is warming up some, we are walking and up to at least 1.5 miles a day...it feels so good to get fresh air!
I just wanted to share one quick story from the day of surgery...so I'm in pre-op and I'm a very hard stick, whether it be just for blood or starting an iv, and about the 3rd person to come in and try was a young girl probably in her mid 20's. She asked me who I was donating a kidney to and I told her my husband. She replied "I've not met anyone yet that I would do that for". I thought to myself that she'd probably just been dumped and was a little jaded so didn't really give it another thought. Then after her unsuccessful attempt at starting an iv, another nurse came to give it a try. She was probably in her mid to late 50's and she asked me the same question. When I told her my husband she perked right up and said "I was married once for 6 months, it's not for me and there isn't a person in this world I would give an organ to". I was shocked to say the least...I mean really there is not even a family member that you love enough to give this amazing gift to?? I guess it takes all kinds to make this crazy world, but just so we're clear...I was and still am honored to have given this gift to my sweetheart. I wish those 2 ladies happiness and hope someday, somehow their hearts will be softened.
Happy One Month Kidney Anniversary Cleo...I love you with all my heart (and kidney!)

3 comments:

grams said...

I just left a comment, but it is gone. Just wanted to say we love you and we know how great your love is between you and Kev. And we also know how great his love is for you. So glad you have each other. Love always. Pat

Audrey said...

Yeah! One month anniversary!!! That is sad that there are people out there that have never loved anyone enough to give. Wow, two in a row.
I'm so glad you guys are doing so well! Keeping our fingers crossed and prayers your way that all goes well on Wednesday!

Love you guys lots, Happy Valentines Day!!

Zach & Sara said...

That's nuts that people would even say that right before you're about to give your kidney to the love of your life. Some people just don't know true love yet. Not even people in their fifty's! You have a greater gift than they've been given. LOVE! AW, sweet. I'm so glad you're both feeling better. I'm soooo dang excited to see you! I love you both!!!